It pays to get some perspective

Last night I got me some perspective. Saw my friend with her family. Get it? Not her parents and siblings, her own family. A husband and baby. Yes I knew she had family. Yes I know she got married. But this was the first time I met her husband. This was not just some boyfriend. This was the person she was gonna spend her life with. Ok so that just hit me. My friend, who I grew up with, giggled over random crushes and shared lunch with now has a family. Her life is no longer just her.

And I'm still here. Planning my next food sojourn. That's it. I am in no hurry to catch up.